Sunshine and Giggles

Horsing Around

2011-12-04T11:25:00.005-05:00

Holiday Photo Opt

2011-12-04T11:21:00.004-05:00

Halloween

2011-12-04T11:16:00.005-05:00

Oldies but Goodies and New Beach Shots

2011-08-06T20:58:00.011-04:00

I have no idea where the summer went, but it is already early August and we are finally out of school. Summer school was over last week. So far, we've been to the beach, gone out to dinner, and a carnival. Still on the summer bucket list is seeing the Smurfs. I've spent a great deal of time doing house hold things that I don't have time for during the school year. Not glamorous, but needed to be done. Olivia and Aliette spend most of the day swimming in the pool and we've have a great July. So far, August has been a little rainy, but I'm sure there are still some good pool days left. Olivia loved art camp and VBS, while Aliette enjoyed getting her nails painted by the sitter. Aliette is doing great. She hasn't been sick since switching from a large daycare center to a private home. She loves her sitter and her speech is coming along. She has such a personality that make it so easy to love her.

Long overdo update

2011-07-04T17:25:00.016-04:00

Happy 4th of July! As I wait for the burgers and dogs to finish cooking, I thought I'd post some pictures. Olivia had her gymnastics and dance recital in June, plus she turned 6! We went to Chuck E. Cheese and she had an awesome time. Aliette continues to thrive in the home daycare and her speech is coming along. Favorite pasttime is using the potty. Olivia is in art camp this summer while I teach. Anyone need a sculture or pot holder, just let me know. We went to the circus and swim most days at my parents. I'm hoping to get to both PA and VA this summer, but it isn't easy mobilizing a family of three.

Finally Spring: Daffadil Festival

2011-05-02T18:50:00.011-04:00

We miss you Nae Nae, my photos weren't like yours but I tried. Here are a few photos from our wonderful outing. Olivia went on rides, Aliette soaked up the sun and enjoyed every minute of her first snow cone. Aliette is doing great at her new daycare. She is having surgery on 18th. Hoping she will continue to stay well. Olivia is getting ready for her dance and gymnastics recitals. I'm looking forward to summer school and lounging by the pool.

South School Scholar

2011-04-11T19:14:00.006-04:00

Olivia has loved every minute of kindergarten. Like many of her classmates her favorite part of her day is music and pe, but she has learned to read and write really well. I'm so proud of her. She entered the science fair and won a metal. Grandpa stopped by to say hello. Olivia was also chosen to welcome the parents to the Kindergarten concert. She memorized her lines. Such an amazing child. Can't wait to see what comes next.

Think Spring

2011-03-25T19:38:00.010-04:00

Happy 2nd Birthday Aliette. We love you sooooo much.

Dress up like mom Day

Trouble or Look mom I'm helping

Hanging out with Bella

Popciles are the BEST MEDICINE.

Such Joy

Hanging out at Bob's

Everyone needs to eat snow. We certainly had our fair share of it this winter

Such a serious little one

Lost everything, so I'll try again.

Lost photos of Fall

2011-02-17T09:55:00.008-05:00

It's Pokey's Birthday! Aliette wanted no part of him, but Olivi loves this bear.

Waiting isn't really my thing, but if I have to.

I know I'm not suppose to be sitting on the table, but it is so much fun.

I really like this. I don't need to be told what to do, I can do it! Yummy.

Yummy. Heaven Chocolate batter. Only a little.

Olivia had a great time making a loot bag. It was a great school party.

Where has time gone?

2011-02-14T13:49:00.003-05:00

I can't believe it has been almost two months since my last post. I wish I could say we had a spectular 1st Christmas together as a family of three, but it was clouded by sickness. This time, it wasn't Aliette but Olivia. She slept her vacation away, poor child, but Santa came through with a panda pillow pet and many more goodies to keep her busy. The winter can only be described in these words: Cold and MISERABLE. Snow and ice have plague our area and we are all longing for spring. We had so much snow, the kids couldn't play safely in it because it was way to deep and icy. We are pretty fortunate, we didn't lose winter or spring break, but many area schools did. It has been a tough winter on Aliette, but we are managing her asthma the best we can and are waiting until early summer to put the tubes back in. Today is Valentine's Day and as a special treat the girls and I are going out for Pizza after gymnastics. I have a new computer class where blogging is part of the class, so I'm hoping to have more postings in the fuure. Enjoy the photos.

A Day to Remember

2010-12-08T11:09:00.005-05:00

Look Mommy, Ivy and I are in NYC.

Possessing for pictures with her favorite American Girl Doll Ivy

Finally, after 3 floors of searching we found Julie and her Best Friend IVY.

Sorry, Grandma we didn't get any photos with you boo, hoo. Thank you for coming. Olivia loved everything about NYC. She enjoyed riding on the train and taxi. She explored the 3 floors of the American girl and thought getting her picture taken with IVY in the studio was the best. I'll scan that picture tomorrow. I only have the 5x7 with me. Olivia and Ivy were dressed for Christmas and the other shoppers were impressed. We enjoyed our three course lunch at the cafe. I would recommend it for any young girl. We visited Rockefeller Center, the M&M store, and Lego store. The temperatures were around 25 degrees, but the wind chill made it way cold. Olivia and I were battling a stomach bug, so we decided to head home around 3:30pm, but we had a full day of fun! This was one of those days I hope she will remember forever. Thanks again for going with us Mom. Your presence really made it special.

Email Hacked

2010-11-10T19:03:00.002-05:00

I would just like to let you all know that I am fine and I do not need any money. There was a security problem at msn and my account was hacked. Please disregard any strange emails. Right now I have no access to my account and will be getting a new one once this is resolved. Sorry for any worry this may have caused you.

Sincerely,
Nikki Pivovar

Aliette just hanging around

2010-11-06T17:54:00.004-04:00

Peek a boo
Hey Mom, I'm here

She loved pulling herself up and looking out of any opening.

Room 109 Happy Halloween

2010-11-06T17:44:00.005-04:00

Class Photo

I was able to sneak away and go to the Halloween party. We had lots of fun!

Best Kindergarten Teacher in the world. Olivia loves Mrs. C.

Best Friends

A new and improved trick or treat bag! So much fun.

Pumpkin Patch

2010-11-06T13:20:00.012-04:00

Olivia loves picking out the perfect pumpkin.

Aliette was watching and wondering where all the pumpkins came from?

My girls at the pumpkin patch 2010. Miss you Nae Nae short hair.

Finally one that she is smiling, sort of.

Waiting of big sister to finish her dance.

My dancer. Think Aliette has rhytm as well.

Fall mums anyone?

Hide and go seek anyone?

New England Foliage

2010-11-06T13:14:00.005-04:00

My girls, just hanging around watching mom rake the leaves into a big pile. A never ending battle.

A Day at the Zoo

2010-11-06T13:03:00.005-04:00

Olivia with the zoo's most dangerous animal. Isn't she brave?

Always wanting to pose for a photo opt. Aliette wanted no part of it. I think she was afraid the statues would come to life.

It was a perfect and warm day for an outing at the zoo. Aliette enjoyed the petting zoo and Olivia loved going in and out of the corn maze.

Thrills of Fall- Apple Picking 101

2010-10-09T09:56:00.011-04:00

Oh where or where is my best apple picker?

Mommy, this is the best apple I have ever had! Can I have another one?

Two against One, the apples didn't know what was about to happen to them.

My big girl, loves poising for pictures

Look mom, he loves this food. Can I have some more?

Do you think Grandpa can get one like this?

Olivia loved feeding the reindeer.

Aliette had a great time at the petting zoo, but wasn't really sure about all of this.

Happy Fall: Life doesn't get better than this!

The Big Day has arrived

2010-09-08T20:12:00.006-04:00

For me the happiest days in my life was when I learned I was matched with my children. After all the paperwork, this was it, they were no longer a dream, but a face that I could pray for and stare at. I was very happy when they were placed in my arms, but getting that photo, really made it REAL. Today, was a close second. After 7 months of phone calls and paper work, Aliette's adoption is FINALIZED. She assumes my name and has found her forever family. Aliette's adoption has been far from typical and normal, everything has been unique, needing special attention, which I guess makes it that much sweeter.

Aliette's earlier arrival really took me my surprise, but I kept putting one foot in front of the other and held the course. In an email to a friend I was explaining how her health problems, have kept running from one doctor to the next, but it has been a blessing. We've had the time to bond and I've removed everything from my plate that isn't critical. I've had time to play hopscotch, finger paint, and roll down hills. I have never been happier in my life.

Olivia was very excited about going to see the judge. She is just beginning to ask questions about her adoption and can begin to explain to others what this is all about. She will be with me for 4 years on September 18! Guess where she wants to go for her special dinner? McDonald's of course. I'm pushing for Chinese, but I don't think my vote counts. My entire family gathered at Friendly's to celebrate tonight. God is so Good. Tonight the angels are shouting or joy and dancing. I feel so blessed to be the mother of two of God's children. Enjoy the photos.

Finally, dinosaurs and stars

2010-08-31T21:54:00.012-04:00

Some Pig.

Anything is possible. Sister's in SPACE.

Reach for the stars.

Me too, I need to take out all of Olivia's pegs before she sees me. One, two, three GO!

You light up my LIFE, keep finding and making new patterns.

I'm a shrimp next to this fellow.

I don't know about this one!

Got Milk?

This is way COOL mom, can we bury Olivia PLEASE?

Digging for Diamonds

We didn't take a formal vacation this summer, but we did visit several museums and other events around CT. We had a great time exploring new things and visiting new parts of the state. Have some time tonight, so I'll post some pictures. Enjoy

Kindergarten

2010-08-31T21:14:00.002-04:00

Today was Olivia's 1st day of Kindergarten. She began with a photo opt with the school mascot, then went on a classroom scavenger hunt locating all the important things in the classroom, only to be followed by a story and coloring activity. Did I mention, she was only in Kindergarten for 1 hour with me. Leaving school on the 1st day of school was difficult, but there is only one 1st day of school, so I managed. She loves her new teacher and her new friends. Aliette has moved to the toddler room, since she is walking and needing more play time. We go to court next week to finalize the adoption, I can't wait. Lots of pictures for that glorious day. Enjoy the pictures.

hanging aroun

2010-08-03T13:11:00.005-04:00

Olivia, my bathing beauty.

Aliette chilling out sporting googles. Necklace right mom?

My precious little mermaid.

Circus

2010-08-03T12:57:00.004-04:00

Nothing better than face painting at the circus in New Canaan. Allie wasn't so sure, but really enjoyed the popcorn.

My silly girls.

A totally face painted. So cute, too bad it was late and we needed to wash it before going to bed.

Preschool Graduation

2010-08-03T10:48:00.005-04:00

Ms. Judy with her favorite family!

Grandpa, thanks for coming to my graduation.

The graduate would like to be a teacher like her mom.

Aliette's Baptism

2010-08-03T10:30:00.007-04:00

Best Friends and Sisters plotting vs. mommy already??

Up close and oh so beautiful.

Haitian Beauty but also a Child of God.

Olivia loves the camera and the camera loves her!

My girls, looking beautiful and for a moment Aliette is tolerating her headband.

The baptism was on Father's Day and we also celebrated Olivia's 5th birthday. So much to celebrate.

Filling in th holes: Dance recital

2010-08-03T10:15:00.006-04:00

Best Cousins in the world. Next year Charlotte will be dancing!

Best dance teacher in the whole wide world: Ms. Jenn. Olivia is going to miss you next year! Thank you for giving her the love of dance and love of music.

Angelic looking princess. She loves dancing.

Look at my ballerina! She was a cinderalla princess! Best yet, we can use it again for Halloween!

Summer fun

2010-08-03T09:57:00.003-04:00

Hello everyone. It has been a very busy few weeks. Aliette is having surgery tomorrow. Please pray that the procedures will be routine and there won't be any surprises or complications.

School ended on June 24, only for summer school to begin on June 28th. I finished on Friday. I'm hoping to go to Bloomsburg early next week for a week. Then, unfortunately, the school year will begin again before I know it on August 24!

Swimming in grandma's pool has been a daily event . Both of my girls are water babies! Aliette loves to splash and jump into the pool.

Finally photos

2010-06-14T20:56:00.005-04:00

I've finally have a minute to upload some photos for all of my followers. Aliette's breathing is so much better. We have a great pulminologist and things are falling into place. I'm waiting to hear from the probate judge, I'm hopeful that I will be awarded custody and finalize the adoption, so hopefully no one will again question my ability to make decisions. School is winding down and summer school is only a day after graduation. Yikes. Looking forward to half days and afternoons by the pool and beach. I'm hoping to take the kids to Sesame Place and on to Bloomsburg to visit friends. I might venture to VA, we'll see.

Medical woes

2010-05-23T08:30:00.002-04:00

Aliette and I have been in Norwalk Hospital for the past three days. She was admitted Wednesday afternoon for Pneumonia, RSV, and asthma flare. We were discharged late Friday and are recovering at home. I'll be taking the week off from work to follow up with specialists, with the hope of getting a handle on her breathing to avoid all of these crisis's. Despite her feeling so yucky, Aliette won the hearts of all those she came in contact with. Not only did I have a sick child to deal with the hospital questioned my ability to make medical decisions because I don't have custody. I was able to give the hospital lawyers and social worker all of the documentation and after hours of research and debate, they stated she will be welcomed at their hospital today and tomorrow. My social worker worked overtime and has gotten a meeting with the probate judge on Wednesday afternoon. Hoping he will be granting custody. I don't think the adoption will be finalized because she hasn't prepared all of the papers, but getting closer to some solutions.

Olivia has been with her grandparents and yesterday spent the day with all of her cousins. I am so blessed to have an easy going child who is flexible. Olivia has been a trooper going to all of the medical appointments and having plans cancelled. Latest sacrifices was a birthday party and dance class. I've cancelled our memorial vacation plans to Bloomsburg, I was so looking forward to visiting with my friends and going to Knoebles with the kids, but I don't think it is wise to venture that far from home. Pennsylvania will have to wait until August. I'll try to post pictures of the girls and our latest adventures sometime later.

Never a dull moment

2010-05-10T22:15:00.005-04:00

I'm sorry I haven't been so attentive to my loyal readers. There has been lots going on. I've returned to work full time. The transition back to the workplace went smoother than I had anticipated. Aliette settled in nicely at daycare and Olivia loves having her sister at her "school." The morning is a little hectic, but I've manage to get 2 kids and all of their belongings in the car by 6:20am! not bad.

I've spent the past 3 months trying to figure out how to get custody of Aliette. Although she is in my physical custody, I have no legal claims to her. Just recently, my social worker found someone who might be able to help me. We are hoping to get both custody and finalize the adoption. Please pray that I will be awarded custody and the adoption finalized and the funds needed will appear. With God, all things are possible. He makes a way out of no way.

I finally decided where Olivia will go to kindergarten. She will be attending school across the street from where I work. It is a wonderful school with high academic standards. She had other options, but I'm only one person who needs to be on time for work. A former student will be watching her for 15-20 minutes in the morning and walking her across the street. A win, win situation.

Last week, on a beautiful sunny day, I took the kids to the beach to fly a kite. Olivia has wanted to fly a kite for months now. She didn't really understand about needing wind, but I think she understands now. She loved kite flying. She handled the kite like a pro.

Aliette has been diagnosed with asthma. Although I'm not a worrier by nature, having a child with breathing problems isn't fun. We spent most of Saturday in the ER with 105 fever and significant breathing distress. The doctors are following her closely and have readjusted her medications.

I haven't heard again from Oprah. I was hoping to visit the windy city, but guess it wasn't in the cards. I'll keep you posted.

I know you all want to see new pictures, so I'll post them later this week.

A call from Oprah

2010-04-09T20:27:00.002-04:00

On Wednesday, I received a called from the producers of the Oprah show. They are planning a show on Haitian paroled orphans and they were looking for guests. I don't know if we will be heading to Chicago, but I sent photos and gave them access to the blog. Even if we don't go, such a cool conversation. I'll keep you all posted.

I go back to school on Monday. Pray that we will be able to get out of the house with few tears and that I won't forget anything important. So much to remember. Now, reality of working full time, managing a house, and kids and a crazy cat. Think she is really upset there are gates and she is annoyed she has to jump to get her food. Aliette is fascinated with the cat's water dispenser, so I needed to move it.

Daisies and Daffodils

2010-04-09T20:08:00.007-04:00

My girls both love to pose for the camera.

Look Mom no hands!

Okay, mom you got a great shot can we now go and feed the ducks?

My girls stopping to smell the flowers!

Hanging out enjoying a beautiful afternoon at the park.

More photos to follow. My friend Renee took lots while I entertained Aliette. We had a great time feeding the ducks, blowing bubbles, walking on walls and acting silly. I just love spring weather. It is so nice to be outside again.

Glorious Day

2010-04-09T19:42:00.008-04:00

Who needs an egg hunt when your cousins bring the eggs and candy to you!

All the cousins in their Easter finest waiting for the egg hunt to begin and putting up with the grown up taking so many pictures.

Auntie Dee with Aliette

Sisters forever!

My girls in their Easter attire with grandma and grandpa before the famous egg hunt!

Aliette hanging out at St. Paul's coffee hour playing with one of our favorite people Steve.

Sorry Nancy, maybe next time.

Happy Easter

2010-04-04T20:35:00.005-04:00

We had a great Easter. Olivia is an old pro at the Egg hunt. She let the little ones in the number of eggs found. Every once in a while she would check on Aliette to see if she was having fun with her two eggs! Olivia was off last week and we had fun hanging out and doing all sorts of neat things, but dinosaurs weren't among them. We went to Sears for our 1st family portrait and I'm so happy with how they came out. I've been taking pictures, so I will post them soon, but until then enjoy a few by the professionals. Happy Easter.

Time to bounce

2010-03-26T10:05:00.003-04:00

So you are probably wondering what is up, well, we are settling into life as a family of three. I'm busy from morning to night, but never been happier.

Aliette is currently finished with all of her medications. I believe we will need to see an ENT pretty soon, but doctor is pacing visits. Insurance is being a little difficult, but I believe those issues are working themselves out. We've been home a little more than a month, when I meet her she wasn't crawling or able to hold her own bottle. Now, she is cruising, pulling herself up, and will walk when holding your fingers. She is a happy baby, with a unique sparkle in her eye. She makes me laugh often. Her favorite past time is playing in the cat's water or playing peek a boo with her sister.

Olivia is very protective of her little sister and would rather play with her than me. I'm a little jealous, but know how important this time. She hates it when Aliette takes a nap or is eating in the Kitchen, she begs for her friend to stay up or join her for whatever adventure she is having. Today we are going to our favorite place: Andies Bounce and Barn with Noelle and Rafe. A good time should be had by all.

Next week, Olivia is taking the week off from school and we are going to hit the museums. I'm dying to see the dinosaurs, kept talking about them, but I never get there, so I'm hoping next week. We have tickets for both the Discovery and Stepping stones museums as well. On Tuesday, Olivia and I will be visiting a potential kindergarten. She has gotten into a great magnet school focusing on language: all students are taught both English and Spanish. I will need to hire a nanny to wait for the bus, but Olivia is getting harder and harder to get up early. It is difficult for me to get up and ready to leave the house by 6:15, now imagine you are almost 5. I am praying and asking for discernment, because this is a really big decision.

April 12th is D-day, the day I return to work and both girls go to day care. I've been driving down the parkway daily to take Olivia to school, but we have breakfast and she is at school by 8:30, only have to shave off two hours! No problem. Wish me luck. I learned that my to do list is very long and is growing longer each day. Thank goodness summer is just around the corner. Olivia is going to art camp and Aliette will stay at day care. We'll see how that goes. Since Olivia loves anything with scissors, glue, and paint, I think she will have an awesome time. I get a few weeks off in August then begin again. Can't wait to swim in grandma's and grandpa's pool. I don't have any photos, hoping I'll get some of the girls in their Sunday best.

Park Adventures

2010-03-16T23:12:00.007-04:00

Mommy insists on putting a hat or hood on me, can someone tell me why?

I did it! No more hood. Yes, I'm free.

Aliette really enjoyed her 1st experience on swings. She told me she wants to do it again tomorrow.

Olivia loved pushing Aliette up, up, and away. Alietted loved every minute of it.

My little monkey. I see you up there.

Best friends and buddies. Enjoying a beautiful spring day. I can't wait to see what tomorrow holds.

Celebrating a new life

2010-03-16T22:38:00.009-04:00

Suzi, I can't believe you waited until now to see me! Aren't I cute? Thanks for the veggies, they were so yummy.

Krista and Aliette posing for pictures. Becoming best friends!

Always photogenic daughter. I love you like crazy cakes. You are the best big sister.

Family reunion so wonderful to see TJ and Krista again! It has been too long.

True happiness. Olivia is sad because I took a photo with Aliette without her. I almost didn't post it, but I rarely take a good photo and it was a good one of me.

Finally a photo with Grandma. She is the best grandma. I love you soo much.

Uncle Tommy and Aunt Jeanette shower Aliette with love and best wishes. So good to see you both again.

I am sorry that I don't have photos of Aliette with all of my family and friends that gathered Sunday afternoon. It was a wonderful party, great food and wonderful memories.

Spring is finally here

2010-03-16T22:24:00.005-04:00

After a long winter, it is so good to be outdoors again. We play outside any chance we can get. Olivia has become an awesome hula hooper and desperately wants to learn how to jump rope. My friend Clare and her daughter came to play.

A Day in the Life

2010-03-16T21:39:00.005-04:00

Sorry everyone it has been a few days since my last post. I used to be on the computer multiple times a day, but now I'd be lucky if I checked my email every other day or once a day. Aliette is a good baby and she can independently play for short periods of time, but there is always something to do. Laundry, clean up breakfast, make lunch, take out trash, rotate laundry, fold and put away laundry etc.. You get the idea. Right now, I feel like the main character in Groundhog's Day. In the early morning, we have breakfast and head off to Norwalk to take Olivia to school. Aliette and I come home, play and clean up a little, usually go to a doctor or specialist and then have lunch. We both crash around 1:30 but our nap is short lived because we need to leave to pick up Olivia at 2:30. Aliette is so excited to see her big sister. They laugh and make faces at each other in the car, it is fun to watch. Olivia's activities keep us busy with gymnastics on Mondays and dance on Wednesdays. Here are some pictures.

Birthday Memories

2010-03-05T23:06:00.006-05:00

What a great night! Tonight Renee and Aliette celebrated their birthdays. The cousins had a great time opening up Aliette's presents. Aliette was more interested in the wrapping paper, than the presents themselves. She received a new baby doll, a new bib, and tub letters Olivia picked out especially for Aliette. I think she really wanted them and this was her way to get it, smart little lady. Aliette has only been home for a few weeks, but she is adjusting beautifully. She is sleeping through the night and received some more medical answers, so I'm looking forward to our next doctors appointment. I don't think Aliette holds my same opinion, but I know that the sooner we get all these tests, the better off we will be.

Today was a busy day, our first play date with Rafe. Thank you Noelle for inviting us over. We had a great time. Can't wait until next time.

Tomorrow, Clare and Andra are coming over to play! We can't wait. Tomorrow evening, Olivia and I go to the theater, while Aliette will stay and play at grandma's. We are going to see Red Riding hood at the downtown cabaret.

Sunday, we are going to celebrate Aliette's 1st Birthday with our friends during coffee hour.

Although things are hectic, we are happy and loving being a family of 3.

The Newest Ram

2010-03-02T06:07:00.002-05:00

Yesterday was a memorable day. I got both kids ready and in the car by 6:50, to take Olivia to daycare. Only problem was the TV repair man was coming at 8am and I was nervous about traffic and potentially missing him. Being without Dora, Max and Ruby, and our other Nickelodeon friends have been fine by me, but Olivia have really missed her cartoons. So we turned around and waited for our TV savior. He arrived at 8:15 with the proper part and by 9:00 we had our TV. A answer to Olivia's prayers.

Back in the car and heading to daycare, my garage door wouldn't go down. I have an older house, and this is a problem from time to time, so I did all of my tricks, but nothing worked. I left the half up, half down door and went on my way.

Olivia was successfully dropped off at school and I got points because I remembered to stop, wave, and beep as I drove away.

I decided to surprise a few friends at New Canaan HS. They have been very excited to see the little one. I didn't want to disrupt classes, but rather find out when the next faculty meeting was and then have the principal introduce her. Tomorrow begins state testing and Monday's faculty meeting was going to be all business, so we visited with many of the teachers in the hall ways and during free periods. We even saw the Superintendent! She was all smiles and giggles. It was really neat for me to see her with my colleagues from work. I am happy to know my sub is holding his own.

We then picked up the princess and headed for gymnastics. Mr. Rick gave me the article that was written when we were away! Aliette and I went to Quest to drop off specimens and then hit the grocery store.

Arrived home, gave both girls dinner and baths. Olivia watched Dora and Diego, the the little one had her treatment and crashed. Went to bed without a peep.

Life is so good. I can't wait to see what today will bring.

Home Sweet Home

2010-02-28T17:32:00.002-05:00

Last night we moved back home and I spent the day unpacking, doing laundry, and playing. The girls continue to do well together. My friend brought us pizza and a beautiful photo memory book of Olivia. Such beautiful photos capturing all of her faces and spirit. A gift from the heart and one that we will treasure always. Best of all the girls slept in their own beds all night long. Our day began at 6:30 am, but I can live with that.

Today, Aliette was introduced to our St. Paul's family. So many have been praying for our family. She was warmly received and showered with well wishes and love. I feel so blessed to be part of a community of believers. I could not have gotten through these past few months without God's grace and prayer. There is power in prayer and today I am celebrating God's blessings. Thank you God for sending us Aliette to love, nurture, and protect. May she grow up knowing your Grace and Glory.

Tomorrow: Olivia goes to school and Aliette and I wait for the TV repair man to come and fix our tv. Gymnastics.

Huge Accomplishment

2010-02-26T14:38:00.002-05:00

Well, the girls are doing very well. Aliette continues to be an easy going baby. We've had an eventful few days, no wonder I'm tired. Recap:
Tuesday: Left Miami 5pm, went on plane for 3 hours, drove through a snowstorm arrived at Grandma's at 2:45 am

Wednesday: Played with Olivia, went to Wal-mart, meet Dr. S., pizza party and meet cousins

Thursday: Had blood drawn, ordered and wrote out invitations for welcome party, mailed final adoption payment, dropped car off to be serviced

Friday: TB test read, chest x-ray and ultra sound done, picked up car Mommy finally BRUSHED her teeth! Thank goodness, she was beginning to be ripe.

Saturday: Finally made it to Ansonia: going nowhere. Word of the day: Laundry.

Sunday: Hoping to go to church, depends on weather and how things are going.

Hoping that once we move home, we can begin a routine. I have no idea what one will look like, but I can dream, at least for a moment.

Big sister

2010-02-24T22:18:00.002-05:00

Today was all about the girls. Olivia and Aliette spent the day getting to know one another. We stopped by church and saw some of the prayer warriors of St. Paul's. Thanks Dawn for making Olivia feel special, while the others made Aliette feel welcome. What did we ever do without Wal-mart? Babies need lots of stuff. We went to lunch at Taco bell, don't worry the baby chowed down on baby food not tacos, then stopped by my house to feed the cat and sort the mail. Aliette feel asleep and Olivia and I played some board games and colored. We had a great time catching up. Then onto a 2 hour doctor visit. We waited for about an hour of that, but then the baby was poked and looked over. Until labs and blood work is back, not much to do. Her breathing continues to be labored, but the doctor feels it is viral because she responding well to breathing treatments and rattling isn't coming from the chest if that makes sense. At times she sound like a freight train! She continues to be a very happy baby, with a contagious smile. We came home to an impromptu pizza party. The cousins and Ryan came over to see the newest princess. They were all so good with her taking pictures and fussing over her. Bella was really taken with her. It was so sweet with her. Aliette got some new duds and the girls build her a build a bear leaving a message telling her they love her. She loved her new bear. Both girls collapsed by 9:00. I'm tired, but happy. Olivia is going to school tomorrow and we will be running errands, hoping to get my car serviced before the snow, but just don't know. Nothing urgent, but something that needs to be addressed sooner than later. Oh, well. I'm hoping to be in church on Sunday.

No place like Grandma's

2010-02-24T10:57:00.004-05:00

We are in Ct. I haven't made it home yet, maybe tomorrow. I arrived at my parents house around 2:30 am. Olivia was ready to play around 6:30am, she looks like a GIANT, compared to Aliette. She is really taking her big sister role seriously. I'm sure the newness will wear off soon. We have a doctors appointment today and I need to make a Wal-mart run. Life is hectic, but I've never been happier in my life. She was a trooper on the plane, but drank like 3 bottles. By the time we landed she weighed an extra 3 pounds, just threw away those clothes and opted for new ones. Sometimes the laundry challenge isn't worth it, especially if it means bringing them home in a suitcase! Got to go, baby is on the move.

Breathing

2010-02-23T06:52:00.002-05:00

A friend from church, reminds me to take a breath, good advice. Last night, was the first night Aliette didn't wake up wheezing or coughing. Momma and baby got a great night sleep! She is still sleeping! Her breathing is labored, but not wheezy, praise God! So glad we have the pink stuff on board as well, because she hasn't pulled her ears. I promise some more pictures today around lunch time, but that will be the final post until we get home. Miami has been great, but there is NO place like home.

Hilary, thanks for posting the pictures up at school. Renee S. thanks for setting me up with Skype and getting the computer ready, Olivia loved it. See you all soon.

One more sleep

2010-02-22T21:14:00.003-05:00

Tonight is our last full night in Miami. A surprise, the weather is going to be nice, so we might be able to get some beach shots after all, I'm hopeful. We don't leave Miami until 8:45pm, so we will arive around 12 am at Bradley. We had dinner tonight a Chili's and Aliette love all the attention. Although she ate prior to leaving, she is a member of the clean plate club.

Clare I would love to visit w/ you and Andra. Please bring the exersaucer, she loved the one at His House.

I have loved all the comments and the emails from all of you. We feel so blessed to have so many people who love and care about us.

Special thank you to my parents and brother for taking care of Olivia. My aunt for allowing me to take her husband for a week, and my sister who showed Olivia a great time. Suzi thank you again for allowing us to stay in your beautiful home. It was such a blessing after such a stressful time. I look forward to visiting with you when we get back into town. Now, the real fun begins as we become a family of 3. Stay tuned.

Olivia mommy loves you and finally you can open that big present mommy wrapped especially for you. You are going to be the best big sister in the whole wide world. See you soon.

Monday blahs

2010-02-22T16:15:00.002-05:00

Today has been a long day, no Internet until now! We spent the day with a final doctors appointment. She has been cleared to fly. She is still pretty congested, but doctor is unsure what her breathing was like in Haiti, so nothing compare it to. She is responding to the treatment, but not like she would have hoped. She is very happy we will be seeing our doctor in CT on Wed. She did put the princess on amoxicillin for an ear infection, but other than that the princess is doing great. Good sleeper, eater, and great personality.

Sorry, no pictures today. I took some at His House, but they didn't come out. Oh, well, maybe tonight she will do something spectacular for me to post. I'm going to go to pack.

Sunny Day

2010-02-21T17:02:00.006-05:00

Today, we finally enjoyed the sunshine! Decked in shorts, flip flops, and hats we went to explore downtown Hollywood, Florida. We went to a park and we saw the beach. Since the Florida natives have been housebound for a week, everyone was out. We also weren't prepared to spend time on the beach: we left the house without the essentials: bathing suits, towel, sunscreen, water, instead we enjoyed the sights from the pier. Not complaining, it was just nice to be outside. Aliette and myself went to Target to pick up a baby doll I was going to ship home for her birthday, but they didn't have any more. Moral of this story: never hesitate, it won't be there tomorrow. Oh well, I have 2 .5weeks to find a baby doll for her 1st birthday.

The Diva

2010-02-20T16:17:00.007-05:00

Here she is Miss Haiti/America. She gets lots of attention wherever we go. The bow lasts about 5 minutes, or until she figures out it is on her head. I love bows, so I'm praying she will get use to them.

Family

2010-02-20T15:47:00.004-05:00

We are on the home stretch, only a few more days away from all of you. Joan, I hope your surgery went well. Here is a picture of all the grandchildren in the hot tub. I hope everyon there is doing well. I'll call you when we return. Make sure you don't over do.

Hello Bella, Sophia, Olivia and Charlotte, remember this photo? See you soon, have fun at grandma's at the sleep over. Don't stay up too late! Happy 2nd Birthday Addyson.

Today, the sun decided to come out and it is about 75! We went to Super Wal-mart to buy an umbrella stroller, so we can get around a little easier, especially at the airport. She is only 16.5 pounds, but after awhile my arms feel like mush, but the hip carrier has been a very helpful. Hoping to explore a little beach or downtown tomorrow. My uncle is at the flea market. He has found some treasures for all of his grands. We had a little adventure day, needed to go to after hours care, the princess was running a fever and had green slime coming out of her nose. After about an hour wait, we learned the princess has a secondary cold, but her treatments are working. Yeah, score one for the team. She is tired from our big shopping spree, so she is sleeping. I'm posting pictures and doing more laundry, this is one messy baby, Olivia was always so neat, not this one. Hello Gabriel, I am enjoying Florida, but it has been cold. I bought the baby a Miami dolphins outfit, with a baseball hat, she looks really cool. Keep reading and posting, I miss you to. See you in April, but I will bring in the baby after she gets well for you all to see her. Suzi, sorry you aren't coming, but we'll get together soon, I promise.

Here are some special photos, I'll post new ones of Aliette soon.

Friday night re-cap

2010-02-19T20:13:00.003-05:00

Aliette is a sleeping beauty. We had a stay at home day. Still freezing here, so much warmer than CT, but when you go to Florida, you think of warm temperature and the beach, not this week. Tomorrow it might hit 70! Can't wait. Big accomplishment of the day was giving Aliette a bath. Again, I forgot how many things you need to get ready before you actually put the baby in the sink. She liked the water and got the hang of splashing really quickly. She is still very congested, but I believe she is sounding better, but now she is tugging on her ears. I am so grateful we go back to the doctors on Monday morning! Suzie's neighbor and cousin, brought over a huge tub of beautiful clothes. Aliette is going to be styling, the tiny clothes she has asked me to donate to His House. There was a 3 month old baby at Aliette know as Jane Doe. She was found alive in the rubble after 3 days, she needed surgery on her arms, but she will make a full recovery.

Still cold

2010-02-19T13:58:00.005-05:00

I can't believe I'm wearing a sweater in Florida, but it is suppose to be nice tomorrow. We've had a lazy day today. Big adventure, going to Target. I love my navigation, but my Uncle would prefer the old fashion way of following your nose. He is a little annoyed that it gives gives different directions even though we are going to similar destinations, because of this, he can't get his bearings. I've learned long ago to trust her navigational sense over mine, because I'm directionally impaired. John hasn't fully embraced the idea of following her advice, but we still have a few days. I feel blessed that my uncle was able to come with me on this adventure. It would have been difficult to do this alone. Thank you so much, it means a great deal to me. He is smitten with Aliette. Enough babble, I know what you all want, more pictures. I've had several questions about her age. She is 11 months, with her 1st birthday on March 7th. 6-9 month clothing fits perfect, but they won't for long. Here they are:

1st night

2010-02-19T06:04:00.005-05:00

She fell asleep during her 8pm breathing treatment and then woke up around 1 for the rest of her bottle and yet another treatment. She slept until 5:30 very wet diaper and we sang songs during breathing treatment. She has discover Cheerios! She loves to shake the can and watch them come out. Had breakfast around 6 am and then was exhausted and fell asleep again. I'm going to load a few pictures, rotate the laundry, I forgot how messy little babies are. Thank God for oxi-clean. Got to go, need a shower!

1st day reflection

2010-02-18T21:40:00.002-05:00

It is about 9:30pm and I'm one pooped momma, but a happy one. Tonight, she learned how to crawl. Watch out a more mobile Aliette! She is in good spirits despite her labored breathing. She is no longer fighting the nebulizer, thank god. She usually just closes her eyes and falls asleep. She is on a steroid to help and I PANICKED because the directions were to give her a 1/2 teaspoon and I only had a mL syringe. I have mastered unit conversions, but I wasn't taking any chances. I called 5 NCHS science teachers and they were all OUT. What are the chances that all 5 would be out at 8pm on a Thursday, it is vacation after all. Plan two, call the local pharmacy that issued the prescription, only they were closed. Plan three, call my pediatrician in CT. thank God for PHA. I am happy to report, I haven't overdosed the baby on the 1st day of care. A small blessing. Overall, she is a happy baby who enjoys being held, but can play independently for short periods. She will wear head bands and hats, (more photos tomorrow) until she realizes they are there. She likes to cuddle and her favorite activity is taking off my glasses. I really have to figure out how to wear contacts again. Oh well, who needs to see? Going to bed, no 3 or 4 am posting for me, instead breathing treatment!

I miss my ballerina

2010-02-18T15:47:00.004-05:00

Hello Princess,
Look at this wonderful picture I found on my camera. I showed it to your sister Aliette and she smiled. You are going to love your new sister, she is very sweet. She likes to pull out her hair bows like did when you were little. She likes playing peek a boo, but what she really likes to do is pull off my glasses. I miss you. Talk to you tonight. Love you Mommy and Aliette

She's all MINE!

2010-02-18T15:11:00.005-05:00

Well, she is officially mine. We spent most of the morning waiting, but we got to wait with her, so not so bad. It is so much better to wait together in Miami, than waiting for news, a phone call, or government parole. I can wait all day and then some, after all good things come to those who wait. Aliette's treatments are going well, we see the doctor in Miami again on Monday and follow up with our doctor on Wed. She is a great eater and is sleeping now. I love reading the comments on the blog, remember, you don't have to have an account, click anonymous and then sign the body of the note, so I know who posted it. I have located a place in the house where I can get wifi service so I can get and send emails. Happy doesn't describe how I feel.

Medical appointment

2010-02-18T03:33:00.003-05:00

Today is our Gotcha Day! We visit the doctors together at 10:30. He is going to show me how to use the nebulizer and answer any questions I my have. I'm really excited about this opportunity because I would have fretted if I would have had to wait until Wed. to see a pediatrician. Now, for the rest of the week, we can relax, get well, sleep, and get use to one another. What a blessing. After appointment I sign a few more papers and then she is mine. I'll post more pictures tomorrow!

More pictures

2010-02-17T21:48:00.004-05:00

1st day meeting

2010-02-17T21:46:00.001-05:00

I’ve decided I will type my response before I go to post, so all I have to do is copy and paste! Yes, an ahha moment. Where to begin? My Uncle and I left in the middle of the unexpected snow storm Tuesday afternoon. It was just a few flurries in the morning, but by 2 pm, there was about 5 inches when we left, fortunately Bradley only had a dusting, the stormed missed them. We boarded the plane about 50 minutes after our arrival, but needed to get deiced before taking off. The plane to Raleigh/Durham was small, but very comfortable. We landed and only 5 minutes later, we boarded a much larger plan to Miami. Lots of free seats, so we were able to spread out and RECLINE! I didn’t sleep, but rested. We landed about 9:30. We took a shuttle to the rent a car place and were given a red Nissan. They were NO help in putting in infant car seat, but didn’t worry because I thought the police would install. We are staying in a marvelous house in Hollywood, FL. Thank you very much Suzie, for allowing us to visit your lovely home. We will so much more comfortable here than in a hotel! We had breakfast in a local diner, with several members of the police force. Come to find out only 2 people in Hollywood are certified car seat installers, and neither was working today. I still not panic because I believed that someone at His House would help us out. Sure enough, Thomas was able to oblige. Now, for the information you all have been waiting for our first meeting:
Only moments upon my arrival to her cottage, I was able to feed her. She drank her entire bottle and was pretty upset there wasn’t anything left
She liked the few toys I brought
I was able to get her to smile and laugh
She is a love bug, with a beautiful smile
I don’t have to worry about hair, she is “bald” with soft strands of hair
Easy going
Wearing 6-9 month clothes, fit great. She will swim in my 12 month clothes, but I’m sure she will fill out.
Weighs in at 16 pounds

She is staying at His House for another night to receive medical treatment. I’ll be going to doctors with her tomorrow and then, she will be released into my care. After coming back from posting, we went to the best Italian food I have EVER eaten. Carini’s. I wanted Mexican, but navigation brought us here and we weren’t disappointed. Standing room only, but lined moved quickly. Awesome, food, garlic rolls that dripped garlic, calamari, and veal Parmesan. Yummy.

After a month of worry and constant prayer, I am overjoyed and enjoying every minute in my time in Miami. Strangers have welcomed me into their home and I am forever grateful. Aliette is a true gift from God and I am rejoicing at such blessings.

Olivia I love you like oodles of noodles and stars in the sky. Hope you had fun at dancing and McDonald’s. Be a good girl for grandma. Talk to you soon. Give piggy a kiss from me.

Here she is

2010-02-17T18:02:00.006-05:00

I have so much to tell you all, but I’m posting from Mcdonald’s and I don’t want to wear out my welcome. She is ill, but nothing that some medication, some attention, and love won’t cure. She is perfect. Tomorrow we go back to hospital and I get to talk w/ doctors, then she will be All mine. I’ll try to post every day, but I don’t think I will be able to answer emails, but I will when I return. I’m sooo happy.

She has LANDED!

2010-02-16T10:42:00.002-05:00

Still waiting on the Dept. of State, but I have confirmation that Aliette is waiting in Miami at His House. She is doing well and waiting for her momma to arrive. I have taken care of last minute details here: getting her medical insurance, dropping off sub plans, and dropping off supplies for Olivia. I can't believe I will be holding my daughter tomorrow at this time! I have to say this adoption adventure has been more exciting than Days of Our Lives ever was. I'm ready for my old boring life to resume. Stay tuned, hopefully, no more cliff hangers.

MIA

2010-02-16T03:29:00.003-05:00

At 5:15 pm, I was contacted and told she was on the manifest to travel on the 8:30 flight leaving Haiti. I was told I would be contacted by someone from the State Dept. with the final details: She is in the air and arriving in Miami. 7:00 no call, 8:00 no call, 9:00 no call, 10:00 no call, 11:00 no call. Well, as you can see it is now 3:30am and there was NO CALL. I went to bed around 10:30 for all of you who worry about my sleep.

What does this mean? Well, two possibilities: One, the plane had mechanical failures and is still in Haiti. Second, she is in Miami, but the nice people at the State Department, didn't want to WAKE me up. Around 8am, I will call my contact and contact the foster care home and see if they can fill me in. I pray she is safe and cozy in a cottage in Miami, but I just don't know. Regardless, I plan on leaving this evening for Miami as scheduled and either scoop her up in my arms or wait for her blessed arrival.

Lord, you are a mighty God. Aliette is a gift that has been chosen to be spared from living in the rubble, instead she will be showered with love and be able to grow strong and healthy. Early in the morning, I need confirmation that she is okay and safe. My nerves are shot and I just can't handle many more delays. Please Lord, I need some good news.

Aliette is boarding a Plane

2010-02-15T17:12:00.002-05:00

Lots going on today! The President signed a list this morning and Aliette's name was on it. The orphanage was able to be contacted and they brought her to the Embassy. Since she is so little an escort needed to be found. An adoptive mom will escort her to Miami. She is due to depart around 8:30 pm from Haiti and arrive in Miami around 9:15. My uncle and I leave tomorrow evening arriving in Miami around 10 pm. I will be meeting her on Wednesday morning! I'll be bringing my laptop, so I will post pictures. Please pray for this last leg of the trip to be uneventful. We can't get returning flights until next Tuesday, so we will be enjoying Miami.

Happy Valentine's Day

2010-02-14T08:30:00.004-05:00

Well, I can complain that Aliette isn't home, or rejoice in the fact that she soon will be. So today on this day set aside for LOVE, I am deciding to rejoice in the anticipation of her HOMECOMING. I am happy to report American A. did change the ticket from Tuesday to Friday, but we need to stay in Miami longer (Tuesday)or pay a HUGE amount of money to return any earlier (no compassion fare), so Aliette, my uncle and myself, will need to "rough" it out in Miami staying in a loaned beach house. I keep saying over and over again, God's timing, not mine. He knows what we need, so I'm deciding to follow without protesting (well maybe a little). I need to unpack and reassess, since I packed my suitcase over a month ago, and I really have no idea what is in it! It will be fun to see all the little outfits, baby bows, toys, food, deciding what to put into one small suitcase is not an easy task. Since we will be renting a car, any of those forgotten items can easily be located at the nearest Wal-mart or Target.

Olivia is very excited about Aliette coming home. Any time I leave and return, she asks me if I went to the "meeting" to bring her home. She also is very excited to use Skype. Dinosaurs were put off for another day, grocery shopping and new video took center stage. The water park is sold out, glad I learned this before driving to Waterbury, so we are going to go swimming at the community center after church.

Parting words, hug all you love a little tighter today. Give kisses freely and let people you care about know how much. Lord, on this day set aside to love one another allow peace and love to descend on all of your children. Send a missionary, a caregiver, or fellow orphan to give Aliette an extra hug and kiss today.

Change of Plans

2010-02-12T20:15:00.003-05:00

I received a call today telling me the President won't be signing the list until next Thursday, so tomorrow, I will change my tickets from Tuesday to Friday, returning on Sunday/Monday depending on availability. She might get in on Thursday night, but most likely it will be late when they arrive. I'll have a better idea about times when I talk w/ airlines to check on availability. To be continued. . .

Might go and see the dinosaurs tomorrow and onto the water park on Sunday. I'm on vacation after all. The TV repairman is coming on Monday. I did my taxes yesterday and got an oil change today. Learned I have a slow leak in steering column, but it is covered by warranty. I guess I will deal with that before I go away as well. It is much easier to do these type of things without small children!

National day of Mourning

2010-02-12T05:22:00.003-05:00

Today marks the month anniversary of the historic earthquake in Haiti. A month ago, I was still giddy with excitement over Aliette's referral. Only a week had passed. I was making plans to travel to the orphanage in April to begin the court proceedings and I was preparing for a 1.5 year wait. As you know, all of that changed on January 12th. Her orphanage was destroyed, but no one perished. They have lived outside under the stars in a make shift camp with little food and water. Two of the three babies have come home, and Aliette will be making her way home shortly. It has been a very long month for my family. It has been filled with such highs and lows. Relief and deep sorrow knowing my daughter is in Haiti and there is nothing I can do to bring her home faster. My story appeared in 2 newspapers, one year book, and on local news. Her homecoming will be celebrated near and far. For that I'm grateful because maybe from the chaos and rubble will come some blessings.

Lord, today I pray for the Haitian people for strength to rebuild and for a day to remember all of the love ones they have lost. I pray for the relief workers and those in the government who have been working around the clock to bring hope and stability to all those affected. I pray for the caretakers at the orphanage that they continue to be resourceful and get the necessary supplies. Finally, I lift up Aliette. Lay your hands on her and cure her. Remove all sickness from her body and restore her health. Surround her with your love and reassure her that she is loved and that mommy is on her way. All of this, I ask this in Jesus name. Amen.

Jefferson is in his mother's arms and on his way HOME

2010-02-10T16:46:00.002-05:00

I just spoke to Amie and they have Jefferson. He is very quiet but doing well. They were only at the intake place for about 3 hours and now they are back in the car heading home. They are going to drive for a few hours, then stop for dinner and crash for the night. Tomorrow they will be a family of 6! Party in NC. Traveling Mercies my friend.

Blizzard and no tv

2010-02-10T13:46:00.003-05:00

Last year I splurged on a new 42 inch TV during a black Friday sale. My old TV was 19 inch, so when I got this monster home, Olivia was in heaven. All was well until last night when we watching Swan Lake, the TV when poof. No picture, no power, just dead. The DVD, and att box still worked, but TV was dead. Dad came over and confirmed the diagnosis, very ill. Fortunately, I purchased the 2 year service agreement and called the 24 hour service number. I was impressed at my ability to put my fingers on the reciept and manual, after all it was over a year ago. There first available appointment for service was Monday. By Monday, Olivia will be in Dora withdrawal. So sad, new movies purchased for the big snow, lay unwatched and Olivia looks longingly at the TV. A few minutes ago, she called grandpa and told him to bring over different tools and fix her big TV, PLEASE.

It is around 2pm, so far the princess and I have accomplished the following:
* Made blueberry muffins for breakfast
* Vacuumed and mopped the floors
* Stripped the beds
* Folded a load of laundry
* Played a very long game of princess Monopoly
* Played Trouble
* Painted by numbers
* Made lunch and washed the dishes all by herself
* Played the rhyming game.

I wonder what the next 6 hours will hold? I'm praying for a nap, but I think the princess has other plans.

Travel plans

2010-02-10T06:34:00.003-05:00

Last night I called the airlines to discuss my unusual situation. I learned that there are no seats departing from Hartford or NY until Tuesday. Since we are expecting a blizzard today and probably shoveling out on Thursday, I booked it. They gave me a compassion fare which was half the cost of a last minute ticket and has flexibility in when you depart and return. If I didn't take it I feared they wouldn't have it when I called again and the next ticket agent might not have been so moved by my story. If I get the call that she is coming home on Thursday or Friday, we would need to drive to Florida. I am really concerned about her health, so waiting for Tuesday would be unbearable. When she arrives in Miami, she will be greeted by DCF workers and placed in protective custody. She will be given a bath and any medical attention she needs, prior to my arrival. When I arrive, my paperwork will be reviewed and she will be released into my custody. This usually takes about a day. Stay tuned for more details as they unfold.

Wild Tee's Check it out

2010-02-10T06:17:00.003-05:00

If you don't know about Wild Tee's, I'm going to let you in on a wonderful secret. A group of mom's got together to design and promote biblical inspirational t-shirts. I bought several as gifts this Christmas and decided to buy one for myself. They are beginning a new promotion with 100% of the proceeds to benefit Eyes Wide Open changing the lives of Haitian people. This special t-shirt will go on sale on FRIDAY. I purchased the Sing Praises t-shirt and absolutely love it. What a great way to support the Haitian people and get an awesome t-shirt. Here is the website http://www.wildolivetees.com

Happy shopping: time to make a difference.

Good News

2010-02-09T16:15:00.002-05:00

Jefferson and Aliette were taken to the Embassy, so Jefferson is waiting to board the next plane to the US. His parents are waiting for the call, so they can make the 12 hour drive to Miami.

Aliette was visually confirmed and her travel documents are being prepared. She is on the next Prime Minister's list. He signed a list on Monday and we don't know when he will do it again, but when he does, she will need to be taken back to the Embassy where she will board a plane to the states.

Yes the light at the end of the tunnel.

Lord thank you for this blessing. Continue to watch over and protect Aliette and Jefferson as they wait to be reunited with their families. So many blessings.

Count my blessings....

2010-02-09T03:54:00.003-05:00

A wise friend send me an email and told me to stop and count my blessings, so here it goes..

* Aliette is safe and alive and has the necessary papers to come home

* An USCIS caseworker has moved mountains, assuring that MDA has access to the embassy

* The orphanage director has confirmed the children's embassy appointments for Tuesday Feb. 9

* I haven't cried in two days

* A friend from school gave me the most beautiful almost brand new Britax car seat!!

* My family has embraced Aliette and can't wait until she is home

* Olivia's cold is getting better

* I've completed all the grades, midterms, progress reports and have left detailed notes for the sub. I've talked to student's parents and even cleaned my desk.

* This adoption journey has touched the lives of so many: I can feel the prayers lifting me up

* Church community who are praying her home longing to hear those squeaky shoes

* Carpets that sparkle

* I know in my heart and soul I will be holding my second blessing sometime soon.

Finally human contact

2010-02-08T18:38:00.002-05:00

On Saturday, I called a contact at USCIS another adoptive mom had. I left a message and hoped she would return my called. This afternoon, she called me! I have never been so excited to talk to another person. She seems to know what is going on and has assured me that Aliette won't be lost or forgotten. She has promised to get her travel papers issued and get her on the next Presidential list. Problem is she doesn't know when he will be signing the next list. She said she will call me again tomorrow with an update. She is aware of Aliette's medical problems and if needed will put her on an immediate medical convoy. I'm still confused as to how she will determine her level of need, but I won't argue. The medical convoy might not go to Miami, stay tuned.

Did you know the month anniversary of the earthquake is Friday? Aliette and the others have lived in chaos for the past 30 days. It is time for our little ones to come home. I've been patient, following the rules, and waiting in line. I'm now stomping my foot and my voice is finally being heard.

Our contact has promised to contact MDA and assure them they will gain access to the Embassy. I pray they don't get turned away again, or they will need to send an extraction team to get the kids out next time. I'm sure the orphanage is tired of dealing with the American babies. I have nothing but admiration and respect for the Haitian caretakers who are risking their safety and well being to bring the children to the embassy. Despite the chaos, they have sought medical attention for my daughter, granted, I don't know if the doctors have medicine but they are doing the best they can under the circumstances.

Hang on little one, help is coming.

Lord, Aliette is sick. Heal her little body. Travel papers and presidential signature is needed so she can come home. I know the snow is coming, but I need to get to Florida soon, so I pray the airports will be only closed for a short time. Continue to make a way out of no way.

Urgent Prayers needed

2010-02-07T18:23:00.002-05:00

I just received word that Aliette has an upper respiratory illness. She is clingy and lethargic. My agency has notified both USCIS and Joint Council and they will be discussing her case on Monday. In regular times, she could leave on medical visa, but this might put her on the next Presidential list. God I hope so. I also learned that Jefferson is still in Haiti. I am unsure if there was a plane or not, but regardless Jefferson wasn't on it. Please pray that both MDA children be on the next plane out of Haiti. They have patiently waited and now it is there turn.

The agency sent supplies and a generator to the orphanage. They sent a heart felt thank you. It is believed that the generator has been stolen, but it hasn't been confirmed. These are desperate times, stealing from orphans. One of the missionaries was a nurse and another took pictures, but I haven't received any yet.

Lord, tonight I ask that you protect Aliette and keep her safe until she can get the medical attention she desperately needs. Thank you Lord, for two full nights sleep. I feel calm, ready to face any challenge that comes. Please Lord, some good news tomorrow.

Power cleaning

2010-02-07T06:07:00.002-05:00

Well, it is Sunday and I'm still home. Sigh. I've stayed true to my words and I have washed, folded, and ironed about 8 loads of laundry. Not a glamorous thing to do on the weekend, but every sock, pants, dress, and unmentionables are back in their home awaiting the next stain. Aliette's pending arrival forced me to again toddler proof the house. Less than a year ago, I took down gates, removed light covers. Markers, scissors, glue and all sorts of treats had a bins, but what to do with them now? Olivia is very artsy, so she has lots of glitter, beads, and other fun treats any toddler would love to get there hands on. Storage has been my focus all weekend. I have a 3 bedroom cape w/ limited storage, so I need to be creative. I've bought a new DVD holder that will prevent Aliette from access. I've bought a large file box for all of Olivia's cutting, coloring, and gluing supplies. Large baskets for Aliette's toys. Put some larger toys in basement, moved the play kitchen into the dining room (wish I thought of this years ago, Olivia actually plays w/ it more ). I've cleaned out my kitchen drawers, coat closets, and garage. See what happens when you have all this pent up energy and you aren't sleeping much. I'm one focused momma.

New projects /dilemma's to solve:
* where to put hair supplies Aliette has lots of potions and lotions, combs and clips black hair is very, very different than ours (bathroom is tiny tiny)

* new larger table and chairs for the artist in training, one we have is very small and her supplies keep falling off.

* locate 2 solid blue bean bag chairs for the red room, only ones I can find are hot pink or purple or have sports emblems on it.

* small end table to go in my bedroom near the pack-n-play again for the stuff.

Did I mentioned I steamed cleaned the carpets? I only have wall to wall carpeting in bedroom and going up the stairs and hard words on the first floor. My cat always decides to get sick on the carpet at the top of the landing or in center of Olivia's and my rooms. I have a Spot bot which I absolutely love, but sometimes that leaves a stain. So, I borrowed a cleaner from my aunt and after about an hour of intensive cleaning my carpets have never looked better. I didn't move all the furniture, but I got most of it. I guess I can cross off carpet cleaning off of my list. My cleaning lady is going to be impressed with my changes. Fess up, who else cleans for the cleaning lady? My reasoning, you don't want to think you are a slob.

Today, nothing spectacular planned. Superbowl of course and getting ready for school. Suitcase is packed and back in the car, maybe tomorrow will be the day.

Strength

2010-02-06T04:14:00.000-05:00

For a month now, my ordinary life has been thrown into utter chaos. People have asked, how have you kept going? Simple answer, I’m not on this road alone, God is with me. When I grow too weary, he scoops me up and carries me. When I grow lonely, he sends and earthly angel to pick up me or sends a miracle restoring my hope. God hears my prayers and the prayers from those moved and touched by her story. He is an Awesome God who needs to be PRAISED.

Lord, Thank you for this wait because it is during this time you have prepared my heart and mind to become Aliette’s momma. You have removed barriers and removed all doubt. Thank you, heavenly Father, for providing me with what I need and not what I want. I’ll continue to wait and listen.

Poem

2010-02-06T03:39:00.003-05:00

A nxiously awaiting your arrival

L onging to told you in my arms

I magining your smile

E nduring the wait

T enacious spirit guiding you

T ouched the lives of so many far and near

E mbarking on a new life, so stay strong my little one

I've always liked to read poems, but I've never been very good at writing them, but I've always fancied this type. Taught in the earliest grades, so I've had lots of practice. I wanted her home these past few weeks, now I need her Home. I'm growing weary, but know I need to be strong. Help me Lord.

Jefferson has been approved to leave

2010-02-05T22:57:00.002-05:00

My fellow adoptive parent Amie just learned that her son Jefferson was signed out by the Haitian President. The state department will call her again when he is put on the plane. Although I wish we were travelling together, I am so happy for my new best friend. She may be holding her 18 month son in her arms for the 1st time tomorrow. Happy travels my friend.

Lord, a prayer of thanksgiving. I would like to Pray for traveling mercies for the Fraley's and I especially pray for Jefferson's well being and health. Perhaps when Gladys brings Jefferson to the embassy Aliette will come along and get on the next one. Who knows maybe there will be an extra seat. Come on Lord, a mama can dream. How much longer Lord?

Princess is sick

2010-02-04T21:59:00.003-05:00

Olivia has caught a royal cold. Runny nose, cough, and general whinnies has taken hold. Tomorrow, a trip to see Dr. Steves only to be told it is a cold and in about 10 days, she will be back to her old self. Oh, well, she loves the stickers!

Still waiting, but I'm hearing one word over and over SOON. My soon and Haiti's soon are very different. Soon for me is right away a few minutes, hours, maybe a day, but I'm learning Haiti's soon is more abstract might be a day or two, or was that a week? Doesn't matter, I know now she is coming HOME.

This weekend very exciting stuff happening: Laundry. I've ignored it all week, maybe two weeks now and we are running out of apparel and if you've seen Olivia's closet, that is some serious laundry!

I took time out today to go for polarity treatment: for an hour, I floated, emptied my mind of worry, and every cell of my body relaxed. Oh, how I LOVE my RUB. What a great t-shirt slogan. I could be the poster child for polarity. If you haven't tried it, I would highly recommend it, it has changed my life.

No go

2010-02-04T05:12:00.002-05:00

Chaos and fighting erupted outside the Embassy. The director felt it unsafe to travel with the children into Port au Prince. Right now, there is a backlog of people waiting and conditions are beyond awful, so instead of waiting for a plane that may or may not come, they have decided to stay put for now. Aliette and Jefferson are safe and loved at MDA. When conditions improve they will be brought to the embassy. Although, I desperately want Aliette home, I don't want to jeopardize her safety, so we wait. I take comfort knowing I have all the documents and she will come HOME.

The conference call wasn't as helpful as before, but we did learn all cases are now being processed in Miami. So at least we have a port of call. A NCHS parent has offered use of her summer home in Miami for us to stay while we wait and are being processed. So many blessings. Thank you Lord for making a way out of no way.

Humbled and grateful

2010-02-04T04:10:00.002-05:00

Yesterday, I was showered with blessings from my fellow colleagues at work. As a special education teacher, I don't just belong to one department, but my students and network interfaces with the entire staff. I know everyone by name and I'm happy to report when they see me with paperwork in hand they usually don't go running. They have learned that although my student might have a special need, I got their back. I respond to emails and I like to solve problems before they become problems. I've become a valuable resource, rather than a problem they have to endure. Throughout the day, I was showered with love, tearful hugs, words of encouragement and promises of prayer and help. Aliette was given a beautiful handmade quilt for her crib and a student brought in a special present for Olivia, so she wouldn't feel left out. I was humbled by the generosity and forever grateful. I love this famous quote "It takes an entire village to raise a child." Thank you NCHS for being my village. My family thanks you for your love and generosity and I can't wait to bring Aliette to school in her new squeaky shoes.

Yesterday, I was the guest speaker for the advanced child development class. Topic: Adoption. I had a great time talking with the class about my two very different adoptions. They asked great questions and they were so attentive. After reflecting on the discussion, it was a heart felt conversation, unpracticed, unplanned, and unrehearsed. No time for power points or photo stories, visuals or manipulative's, but I don't think it detracted from the meaning. There is currently 187 million orphans world wide, all just waiting for a home and someone to love them. Maybe today, my story planted a seed that will help bring one of these children home. The plight of the Haitian orphans have opened the eyes of many Americans. Maybe it took a 7.4 earthquake to get the world to look past the color of their skin, to focus on a child. Unfortunately, racism isn't a problem of the past, it is alive and well, but maybe a natural disaster of epic proportions has helped open the minds and hearts of middle America! Only time will tell. A month ago, Haiti the world's poorest country, only 45 minutes off the coast of Florida wasn't in the nightly news. Nobody seemed to care that 75% of its children are illiterate and often a family lives on less than a dollar a day. For now, the spotlight is on this country. I pray that the passion for helping our close neighbor doesn't fizzle as time goes by, but that real change will take place and improve the quality of living for all the Haitian people. I have pledged to help rebuild the Maison de Anges orphanage and restart the school. What are you going to do?

Dreaming of a snow day

2010-02-03T01:48:00.003-05:00

What a day! A short cat nap and I'm wide awake. The other night, we lost power and although I reset the time on my clock, I didn't reset my alarm, so it went off at 1am. I'll go back to bed soon, but for now I'm enjoying watching the snow fall. It is so peaceful. God, I know I've been praying a great deal lately, but I could really use a nice snow day.

Tomorrow, there is another conference call with Homeland Security, USCIS, and a bunch of other agencies. These calls are great because we get filled in on what is going on and what to do next. They provide answers, calm fears, and give us hope that our children will come HOME. Stay tuned.

Aliette and Jefferson will be taken back to the Embassy tomorrow. This time our orphanage rep. is well prepared. He has the paperwork, printed emails explaining what he is do and what the Embassy is suppose to do. He also has been told, don't go back to the orphanage without the babies having their photos taken! Yes, God is AWESOME and with HIM all things are possible.

Praise God Miracle of the PAPERWORK

2010-02-02T19:59:00.002-05:00

Yesterday, I took my suitcase out of my trunk and was trying to wrap myself around what to do next. Throughout the day today, I prayed and decided that the only left to do was to plan a trip to Haiti to bring Aliette home. So, I spent the day on the phone, exploring various travel options and speaking to many, many people. Around 5 pm, I took a break from the phone calls to check my emails and there they were. Sitting in my in box, looking so perfect FRAMEABLE! I'm not kidding. These are sensential looking, very official looking paperwork. It has Aliette's mothers fingerprint and all sorts of offical seal. This means, Aliette qualifies for Humanitarian parole category 2, and I don't need to go to Haiti. Instead, in a few days, maybe a week, Aliette will be home with us. Prayer, faith, and hope has gotten me through these past few days, my friends, don't let up because she isn't home yet! I've got some more calls to make, so I'll post some more later, probably at some ungodly time.

Worst fears confirmed

2010-02-01T18:47:00.003-05:00

I received offical word today that all the adoption paperwork was destroyed. This was my worst fear, because the government is requiring documentation of abandonment prior to the quake. My agency has requested special consideration based on their reputuation and my other documentation. From what I understand, I'm not the only one with this problem, remember 7.2 EARTHQUAKE. Guess only time will tell, if Aliette will come home or have to remain in Haiti. Crazy how you can care so much for someone you have never meet. Tonight, I pray that my daughter is safe, has enough food and water, and continue to thrive under the special care of Gladys. May she know how much she is loved by her big sister and her mommy. It is our hope and prayer that you come home soon, but if you can't we will continue to pray for you and provide you with the basic necessities to grow stronger.

Saved the best for last

2010-02-01T08:33:00.002-05:00

Aliette is one of about 100 US orphans still in Haiti. One can only hope that the remaining orphans will be gathered and sent home quickly. On Saturday, our agency requested another embassy appointment, but we have not heard anything since. Marta made it home to her mother in Orlando this weekend. I'm so happy for you Linnea. My new best friend Amy has been enjoying being home with her 3 darlings due to lots of snow and ice. Don't know if I could have endured the wait without you! Hoping to meet you in person really soon.

Onto other news, we didn't go see the dinosaurs, but went to an indoor bouncy place. Let me tell you, it is the place to be if you are under 4 ft. tall on a Saturday. We had fun playing with our new friend Benicio.

Got some rest this weekend, so I'm in a better place emotionally.

Turned away three times

2010-01-30T03:20:00.002-05:00

Guess, the word of the day is frustration. The children have been to the Embassy three times and every time, they were turned away and denied access. I don't understand why, but I sent an email to homeland security asking for an explanation and they promptly sent an email outlining how to get into the Embassy. So I forwarded the information onto my agency and I pray the fourth time will do the trick. You see, the three babies need to go the Embassy, so they can get in line to go home. The other two families have their abandonment papers, but I'm waiting to hear if the orphanage has found mine. When Jefferson and Marta are presented they will be granted parole, but the orphanage needs to show proof that Aliette was abandoned. I know Aliette was an orphan prior to the quake, they would have never referred her to me, so the paper had to have been in the orphanage, but recall the orphanage was severely damaged. I have meet all the criteria for parole so it will be granted if they have the paper! When orphanage staff is asked directly if they have the paper, they respond adoption papers are gone. Now, we don't need the fancy sealed documents I gave copies to the government, we have all of those, but can't seem to ascertain if they have the relinquishment papers. Good grief. I am so ready to get off of this roller coaster. Yesterday was a dark day, doubt and fear began to take root, but today seems a little better. Although it is early in the morning, I fell asleep around 7 pm, so I for me, I'm slept well!

Today we are going to see the dinosaurs at the Yale Peabody Museum with a friend from school. Olivia thinks dinosaurs are for boys, but I think she will change her mind when she sees those magnificent bones. It will be nice to be away from computer for a few hours. Lord, time for another miracle and for news that she is on a plane and coming HOME! Please God.

Snow man design 101

2010-01-28T19:29:00.003-05:00

My snow angel. Beautiful day to play in the snow. Thanks Renee for always capturing Olivia's special moments and putting up with me this week.

Forever Grateful

2010-01-28T18:03:00.002-05:00

Tonight I'm weeping, exhausted, and overcome with gratitude for a complete stranger named Mickey. I mentioned him a few posts ago. Mickey went down to Haiti with a church group as a missionary and a film photographer. He has captured the plight and the resilience of the Haitian people. He has been there since the quake and I know he is ready to come home for a warm shower and a comfortable bed, but he ignored his physical body, and listened to God. He choose to stay in Haiti to help our three babies come home. I have never meet Mickey or his family, but we(adoptive parents) will be forever grateful. Mickey, I am humbled by your sacrifices and knowing that you are holding our little ones bring us such comfort.

Yesterday, Mickey helped sort through mounds of adoption/orphan paperwork that was in shambles since the big quake. Remember, there is close to 100 children at the orphanage. The mound of paperwork was overwhelming for the staff given they are caring for so many children, who are scared, hungry, and needing some love. But his kindness didn't end there. Today, he took the children to the Embassy for visual confirmation. I'm waiting on word as to how it went and if there is word when the travel papers might be issued. Without his sacrifices, I don't know if Aliette would have had the papers she needed or if the children would have had a way to get the the Embassy, because staff is so stretched. Mickey has also offered to bring the children home with him if allowed. Pray for this my friends. His plane is heading to JFK. So close to home and no huge airfare bills for last minute flights.

Lord, please protect Mickey as he continues to do your work. Rock your little children to sleep, and may they continue to be a symbol of HOPE and JOY for the entire world. I ask that soon means tomorrow because I'm really ready for her to come home. Thank you Lord for putting Mickey on our path.

Comments

2010-01-28T03:18:00.002-05:00

Several of you have told me that you tried to leave comments and couldn't. After some investigation and tech support, I've changed the blog settings, it was only allowing others with blog accounts to comment. It is open to all. When prompted, Click Anonymous writer, but sign the body of your email. I appreciate all of you calls, emails, and comments. It gives me the strength and hope to keep on going. Hoping for some news today.

Earthly angels

2010-01-27T20:02:00.002-05:00

The other day, I posted I spoke to a parent who works for the Red Cross. She knew of a group of people from New Canaan currently in Haiti helping with relief efforts. She followed up and contacted them explaining my situation. An unexpected call came today around lunch time from a mother of a missionary. Her son was staying at the TABARRE airport and he could see the orphanage from his tent compound. She gave me his phone number and said he was expecting my call. Since I didn't know exactly what to ask for, I contacted my adoption agency and relayed several messages explaining what needed to be done. He agreed to go to the orphanage and help sort through all the papers. The agency didn't have any further communication w/ Haiti and they tried all day. Usually it means things are happening, hopefully good things. If things were bad, they would get word. He will be returning to the states in a few days and have offered to take the babies along, if they get their clearances. Miracles abound. Thank you Lord for sending this Good Samaritian right on time.

Oh, Happy Day!

2010-01-26T20:50:00.003-05:00

At 8:02 pm, I received a call from Homeland Security to inform me that Aliette qualifies for humanitarian parole level 2 pending proof of her abandonment. This document is in Haiti, not with me or my agency. So all you prayer warriors out there pray that they can produce the right paper at the US Embassy when they go to secure the children's paroles. Tonight we are one step closer to bringing her home! When might that be, I don't know but soon. During the conference call, they told us to stop worrying and go out and buy car seats!!

Prayer:
God, you are so good. You continue to make a way out of no way. When I go weary, you are my rock and my salvation. Please protect all the orphans in Haiti, may they find comfort in your arms and shelter from the rain and hot weather. I lift up the relief workers and all those who are raising funds to rebuild Haiti. Father God protect Aliette and the others at Maison des Anges as they begin to make their journey to their new homes in the US and I would like to say a special prayer for all of my fellow adoptive parents. After years of yearning, preparing, and dreaming our children are finally coming home, may we all savor and allow the blessings of this reunion to make us better parents and people. Despite all the heartache, joy, and sorrow, I feel so blessed to be on this journey with all of you.

Hope

2010-01-26T16:05:00.002-05:00

Today I attended a two hour phone conference with several federal and state agencies working tirelessly to bring our children home. During the call, rumors were dispelled, and hope was restored, knowing that both the US and Haitian government want those children matched prior to the quake to come home to loving homes. Currently, humanitarian parole is being granted, but travel letters are not being issued. I'm still waiting for confirmation of her parole, but after today's conference I feel she meets all the criteria and we have all the documentation except the relinquishment papers which the orphanage has (I Pray). Dialogue between the US and Haiti's highest officials are taking place and the team today made no promises but were encouraging and hopeful that the children will be released soon. Today tears of joy and relief stained graded mid terms, oh well.

Blessings:
* Renewed hope that Aliette will come home
* All the government officials who are working very hard to unite families. Not an easy job.
* Wonderful colleagues that covered for me while I was on a 2 hour conference call
* Caring parents and teachers who have sent gifts of clothes or gift cards so I will have what I need once Aliette comes home
* Rev. Janet, for praying with me keeping me grounded and centered during these trying times
* MLK prayer warriors whose phone calls make me smile and transport me back to Reston. I miss you all
* For my Chinese adoptive families who email me well wishes and prayers

2nd Teleconference

2010-01-25T19:25:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow at 10:30 EST will be the 2nd teleconference by Joint Council. Haitian government has passed a new law to prevent children who were not orphans prior to earthquake from leaving the country. Guess, some people did not play by the rules. The government will need to approve all children leaving on visas or parole. Although humanitarian parole is still being issued, they are not processing travel documents. This will prolong her homecoming. UGH!

I did hear this morning that Aliette and her friends are doing well, but are looking forward to coming home. The woman who is taking care of them loves them to pieces and I guess is pretty resourceful. Thank you Gladys for taking such good care of our children. I can rest a little better knowing she is in your hands.

Today, I spoke to a staff aide in both Senator's Dodd's and Governor Rell's office. Don't think either phone call made a difference. I did speak to a NCHS parent who is the Director of International Red Cross and she made a note of where the orphanage was and is making sure supplies get to them. Blessings.

Funny, I was all set for a two year wait, and now all I want is for her to come home. Circumstances have drastically changed. Lord, help me to accept the things I can not change. Teach me to be patient and enjoy this waiting season. I thought advent was over! Guess I was wrong.

Stay tuned. I'll update around lunch time.

Road block

2010-01-24T19:19:00.003-05:00

This evening the Haiti government stated they must approve every visa and humanitarian parole before the child leaves the country. This will cause a delay in Aliette's homecoming. I did receive word that Gladys(director of orphanage) is working on getting ALL the kids home. This is the first I've heard of any moment to get them out.

Looking for the blessings:
* I've had so much energy, my house is really, really clean.
* Lack of sleep yes, but I've watched all of my stored movies on tivo
* Kindness of friends and family
* Prayers from the Bishop
* Hugs and kisses from my adorable daughter
* Lost 6 pounds and counting!

No news

2010-01-24T06:57:00.003-05:00

I was hoping to have something new to report, but there isn't. My orphanage director feels it is unsafe to travel to the US Embassy, so they haven't made any attempt. The children are safe and still well. Today as each one of you make their way to church, pray for a few angels to be sent to Maison des Anges and rescue our three babies. Pray for Marta, Jefferson, and Aliette that they continue to be reliant and strong during this chaotic time. I would also ask you to say a prayer for the adoptive families for strength, courage, and wisdom as we begin a new week.

In the News

2010-01-23T17:38:00.003-05:00

We are celebrities, but I would rather go back to my boring and dull life. CT NBC news just left. Olivia got scared of all the camera and all the questions the reporters were asking. She was really, how shall I say this, a royal pill. NBC is going to have do some major editing. This morning, my dad and I went shopping for a dresser and baby bedding. Burlington had exactly what I wanted. Crib is up, furniture is rearranged, and baby clothes have made their way into their new home. Now, all I need is for Aliette to find her way home. I'm ready, come home soon little one.

Limbo

2010-01-23T04:41:00.003-05:00

We are in a holding pattern. Aliette's orphanage is about 10 miles from Port au Prince. They have sought safe haven with a large orphanage up the road, but they don't have the nannies to lose three to take them to the embassy and wait in lines for days. There is also not enough food and water to sustain the little ones during the wait for the proper paperwork. My agency is working with the state department and Joint Council to have the kids escorted by them rather than orphanage staff. Currently, Aliette and the others are alive and safe, but this could change any time.

For the past week, I have been glued to the computer and my cell phone, waiting for the CALL to come get her. Reality is it may be weeks before she comes home. I've shared my story with the press Waterbury Republican and BBC, called Senators and Congress, now I need to TRUST in God to perform a miracle. I mentioned 2 other families anxiously awaiting for their Haiti child to come home. Amy, from North Carolina, has become my new best friend. She gets it. She understands first hand the rollercoaster of emotions, the fear that they might not grant parole to our babies because they are new into process or have a missing paper. She is a military wife and like myself has been making lots of noise. She is talking with military to see if they can conduct a search and rescue mission. Extreme, yes, but this is the time for action and to do nothing will be jeopardizing the lives of three children loved by their families in the US.

This weekend I'm going to continue to get ready for Aliette's homecoming but after the crib is set up, the dresser put together, and closets purged, I'm going back to my life. I'm going to try to focus on living today, not worry about things I can not control. This won't be an easy task, but a necessary one because it is just too hard to live without sleep and constant worry.

No I'm not giving up Hope. I have hope and faith that she will come HOME, but I'm not in control. God is. He is in the mountain moving business, so I'm stepping aside, so He has room to work.

Press begins to champion our cause

2010-01-22T03:18:00.002-05:00

First a call from the BBC, and last night an hour interview with the Waterbury Times. The Joint Council has written a strong letter to the Dept. of State with the support of over 50 members of Congress and the Senate with a deadline of 10 days for the exodus of our children. A few of the children have come home they have been highlighted on the news, but they got out because their parents or agency secured passage on a private plane. This really isn't the best way to proceed because extra planes are clogging up the relief effort . As days pass and conditions continue to deteriorate, the Haitian waiting families are becoming desperate and are beginning to plan rescue missions on their own which are dangerous, since there are no commercial flights. WE beg the individual task forces to begin to play nice with one another and begin the immediate evacuation of our children.

Pictures of orphanage

2010-01-21T03:25:00.003-05:00